8 Reasons to Flip Over and Indulge in Some Doggy Style Bliss

We all have our favourite positions, and the ones on top (har har!) may differ when surveying the sexes. Doggy style may not be the first position we try with a new partner — or even a not-new partner — but there's a lot to love about it. Generally, it's a position that guys are considered to be way more into than females, but it doesn't have to be that way. So how do you make doggy style better?

Whether you are turned on by being a bit dominated, letting yourself surrender, or just knowing that with doggy, your partner can hit all the right spots — and deeply too — it's absolutely worth giving this position a try.

For doggy, the angle of his thrusting is going to often dictate how good this feels for you, so give your partner a lot of encouragement along the way and let him know what feels right and what can be adjusted. And make sure to bring some cushioning, being on all fours can feel awkward after a while.

Want to kick it up another notch? Bring a vibrator in for some additional fun and slip it down there — it'll stimulate both of you while you're going at it.

Go Deeper

If the person being penetrated has a vagina, this angle can actually move how the cervix sits in relation to the vagina, allowing the penetrator to go underneath it for a deeper penetration than in most other positions. If the receiver is getting it anally, it can straighten out the anal canal for a similarly deeper penetration.

Cushion Up

Doggy style can be a bit tough on your joints. Consider putting pillows under either partner's knees, or even under the receiver's hips, so that they can still relax and enjoy the angle while getting it on.

You Aren't At Any Greater Risk From UTIs

Some believe you're more likely to contract a urinary tract infection if you do it doggy. That's simply not true. Sex in general exposes a female-bodied person with a higher likelihood of UTI. UTIs occur when bacteria is exposed to the urethra. Women have much shorter urethras than men, making infections easier to contract. UTIs can be very painful and require being treated by antibiotics. Regardless of any positions practiced, pee afterwards to wash away any potential bacterial exposure.”

It's Not Submissive

Fact of the matter is that this position feels great for a lot of people because, physiologically, it can hit a lot of the right spots. You don't have to give up any control to enjoy doggy style from the bottom.

Spanking Anyone…?

Smacking dat ass is not mandatory! Ask before you spank. If the question is answered with a responding and enthusiastic 'Yes,' then spank away!

Switch Things Up

So often, doggy style is portrayed as the someone pounding away at their partner from behind, but it doesn’t have to be that way! Back that ass up! Bounce, pop, swing, and roll your hips. Your partner will love it. Plus, all that movement churns your pelvic floor muscles, giving you added stimulation. Or lower your body so that you’re laying on your stomach for a slow grind instead of a deep thrust.

It Can Be Cosy

Doggy Style can be intimate. It’s a vulnerable position, and can imply a certain amount of surrender and trust. Your partner can kiss your back, neck, and shoulders, and whisper lovely things in your ear.

Just Like Yoga

There’s a reason we do the Cat/Cow positions in yoga (and why someone always giggles through them). Being on your hands and knees allows your hips to open, and can release lower back tension. Add sexual pleasure to that … win-win!

And if all of the above doesn’t make you wanna do it like they do on the Discovery Channel, there is the bonus of multi-tasking. Banging and boxset binging - the ultimate Netflix and chill!

What Does Your Star Sign Say About You When it Comes to Sex?

Even if you read your weekly horoscope for fun, you might roll your eyes at the concept of astrological compatibility. But what if great sex is written in the stars, and "hey baby, what's your sign?" doesn't deserve its corny reputation?

If you're looking to achieve off-the-charts chemistry (aren't we all?) with a lover, it certainly can't hurt to consult the astrological charts. Discover your best bedroom chemistry with our guide to the stars and what takes them to cosmic climax.

Aries March 21 – April 19

The Ram is a take-charge kind of lover, self-confident to the extreme and loves to experiment. Be forewarned the Ram has an unquenchable thirst for sex and if you aren't able to keep up, it might become a sore spot.

Taurus April 20 – May 20

Taureans have a strong sex drive and love to touch and to be touched. The Bull is very self-assured as a lover, although they might be considered a little old-fashioned by some. Expect the Taurus to satisfy you, but don't expect anything too unconventional.

Gemini May 21 – June 21

The Twins are masters of seduction. Your Gemini lover will stimulate your mind and your body, and because of this sign's creativity, your Twin will never be boring between the sheets. The Twins will never fall into the rut of the same ol' thing over and over again, so you'll always be surprised!

Cancer June 22 – July 22

Many Crabs are somewhat submissive sexually and enjoy pleasing their lover with tenderness and soft, lingering touches. Don't be surprised if your Cancer lover offers you a back rub or massage as part of foreplay!

Leo July 23 – August 22

Leos are powerful in bed, and many are dominant by nature. They have amazing sexual energy and confidence and have the innate ability to lead even reluctant lovers into the throes of passion. The Lions are generous in bed, but they expects to get at least as much as he gives.

Virgo August 23 – September 22

Virgo is the "still water that runs deep." In other words, once you get underneath Virgo's calm surface, there's plenty of fiery passion underneath. They take very good care of their lovers in bed, showering them with their full attention.

Libra September 23 – October 22

Because of Libra's creativity , and fun-loving nature, a Libra lover will provide lots of sexual enjoyment to the right partner. Libras are very creative and enjoy playing out their sexual fantasies, including role playing.

Scorpio October 23 – November 21

Scorpios exude a powerful animal magnetism and a special sex appeal that's practically impossible to ignore. They have boundless libido, and a Scorpio lover can take you to heights of passion you never thought possible.

Sagittarius November 22 – December 21

Archers are imaginative in bed and like to be sure their lover is enjoying themself. It's often difficult to get a Sagittarius to commit to a long-term relationship, but for sexual fulfillment, this sign is hard to beat.

Capricorn December 22 – January 19

For the Goat, love and sex often go hand in hand. If a Capricorn cares for you, you will have no trouble arousing them to passionate sex. If you seek a kind, steady lover, Capricorn is for you.

Aquarius January 20 – February 18

Aquarians are all about physical passion, with or without an actual relationship. They enjoy experimenting in bed and are often considered "kinky." If you're open to trying new things in the bedroom, you won't be disappointed with the Water Bearer.

Pisces February 19 – March 20

Pisceans are very easygoing and receptive to their lover's advances, so if you want to be the aggressor, Pisces might be just the fish you're angling for!

Deepthroat Secrets Revealed So You Can Give That Porn Star Blow

If the very thought of a phallic object testing your gag reflex makes you want to hurl, but you want to be an apex oral administrator, we’ve got a couple of tips that could make your time spent down there much more pleasurable and also make your oral recipient’s day - woohoo!

Train That Trachea

Practice makes perfect as they say and perhaps, while you’re still at deep-throating rookie level, it would be best to practice your pork sword-swallowing technique on something that isn’t your sexual partner’s member, unless they’re cool with the remnants of your cream cheese breakfast bagel being regurgitated all over their naked crotch that is. If they encourage you to recycle your brekkie onto their exposed genitals then wow, that’s kinky!

Try to get your mouth and throat adjusted to a foreign object being there and tickling your gag reflex area. Get yourself a soft, flexible dildo of the “proper size” so you can practice with it in private at your leisure. Note: NEVER, NEVER, EVER practice on hot dogs, sausages, cucumbers, courgettes, or even peeled bananas – they can break-off in your throat and choke you! Slowly introduce the object to your throat and hold it there gently just when it begins to feel like you’re gonna get your gag on. Don’t push yourself too hard but, as with anything training-wise, you gotta push a little bit to make improvements and get better. Gradually build up your tolerance with your willy-quaffing training. You’re going to be like the Rocky of the sausage slurpers! Ahem should we say...Cocky? Sorry. Bad us.

Sweeten The Deal

There are also a few neat little tricks to reduce deep throat difficulty. Its not all about sticking that thing in there as far as you can and attempting to breathe through your ears for what feels like a small eternity. It is possible to make it easier and dare we say it, thoroughly enjoyable pleasuring someone using your upper penis portal. Try a cough sweet 5 minutes or so prior to enveloping their bits with your gob, the sweet will help reduce sensation at the back of the throat where it’s most sensitive so that you can happily blow their cock without blowing chunks.

Get a Grip

Ok, so the next one sounds a bit peculiar, but gripping your left thumb in your fist can disarm your gag reflex’s defences. It’s basically a case of distracting your brain with an odd sensation so that it doesn’t acknowledge the other strange sensation of a foreign object fighting its way down to your oesophagus (not physically possible but sure it would give your guy an epic ego inflation if he’s anatomy-savvy and heard you trying to moan ‘oh yeah you’re hitting my oesophagus’...(not even entirely sure how you’d accomplish saying that with a mouthful of cock)..anyway, we digress, next tip.

We Nose How

Many people don’t even realise how much they rely on their mouth for breathing until they can’t breath through it anymore. Don’t be a mouth breather and practice inhaling large amounts of air through your hooter. Get used to it in your everyday life and you will find it a very handy talent at times when your mouth is otherwise engaged. Your blowjob buddy will thank you for it, as you won’t have to release their penis every second so you can gasp for air. Breathing through your nose means you can multi-task — convert oxygen into carbon dioxide and keep pleasing that one-eyed mouth guest.

Good luck with your deepthroat training, you will be taking it like a pro in no time! Anyone else have any other tips? Share them in the comments.

Sex in the Morning VS Sex at Night - When is the Best Time to Be Horny?

Blokes tend to wake up feeling amorous, while their partners get in the mood late in the evening - so why can't we synchronise our sex clocks?

So the saying goes, women are from Venus, men are from Mars, right? Well, it turns out that women and men are operating on completely different time zones as well.

According to a lot of research, it has been found that women are most interested in getting steamy between 11pm and 2am, while men are more frisky between 6am and 9am: the average time being 11:21pm for women, and 7:54am for men. Unfortunately, only a whopping 16% of men have been recorded to want sex before they sleep at night.

It doesn’t just come down to a simple: men have morning wood, and women want sex at night. Rather, there is some real science behind why women and men are on such opposite sex schedules, and why their appetites don’t always coincide with one another.

Women and men both produce testosterone, which is the heaviest influence for sex drive in our bodies:

A man produces the most testosterone before he even wakes up in the morning - anywhere between 25%-50% more than any other time throughout the day.

So, as the sun begins to rise, he’s already sending more juice to the engine for hen he opens his eyes.

Ladies, have you ever had mornings where your man’s boner just won’t leave you alone - yet all you can think about is sleep? This is totally normal.: women are at their lowest levels of testosterone in the morning. As the sun begins to go down, woman’s production increases - sadly just as men’s are decreasing. Curse you Mother Nature!!

A woman’s testosterone production also doesn’t fluctuate as severely throughout the day as a man’s does. men’s hormone levels increase and decrease immensely in a twenty four hour period, while women’s levels correlate more closely with their cycles.

Have you ladies noticed that you’re more horny about 2 weeks before your period is on it’s way? Well, here’s why: halfway through your cycle, you’re at your height of testosterone production: up to 30 times higher than at the start.

Another booster for testosterone - whether you are a man or a woman - is getting a sufficient amount of sleep. Sleep deprivation has been proven to significantly lower testosterone levels, simultaneously lowering sex drive.

So, guys, you wanna get some action in the AM? Make sure your lady is getting a good amount of shut-eye. Research shows that getting 5+ hours of sleep will raise a person’s sex drive by around 15%.

The old joke is that ‘Women need a reason to have sex and men just need a place.’ Funny enough, but not surprising by any means, research has concluded that even though men are more randy in the mornings, couples are most likely to have sex at night.

There are benefits to morning sex though, but that’s another article. ;-)

Ultimate Pegging Pleasure? - We Have the Recipe for Success

While anal play is by no means a new practice, the number of straight men harbouring desires to be on the receiving end has become much more commonplace. So, by popular demand (fanfare please) we present our Recipe for Successful Pegging for Newbies.

What is Pegging?

Nothing to do with laundry, pegging is the practice of a heterosexual male being anally penetrated by a woman wearing a strap-on dildo. This became a popular notion in 1998 when Sex Educator, Carol Queen made the video dvd ‘Bend Over Boyfriend. The term ‘pegging’ came to be when sex columnist, Dan Savage, held a contest in 2001 asking his readers to coin a phrase for the practice.

Preheat the Oven

There a several things to consider when thinking about exploring pegging. Its good to start slow. Before investing in a harness and dildo, experimenting with fingers, small butt plugs or small prostate stimulators can help both parties discover what they like and don’t like about anal play.

The Shopping List

When you feel ready to move to strap-on sex, choosing the right harness and dildo are very important and can make all the difference to your level of enjoyment. If a harness fits incorrectly, it can make penetration awkward —perhaps even a no go. If you get overexcited and choose a dildo that is too gargantuan, it can make the experience quite unpleasant if you are a beginner.

Mix the Ingredients

Try to find an affordable but higher quality harness that can worn as either a one-strap or two-strap style so you can choose what is most comfortable. Try also to find one with a removable backing pad for stability. When it comes to choosing your weapon of choice, look for a dildo that is smooth with no distinct ridges so penetration will be smooth and more comfortable. You can always try out those deliciously pleasurable ridges once you are a veteran. Oooh! Don’t forget the most vital ingredients of all — communication and lubrication!

Decorate to Taste

Some couples also want to try double dildos, which have one end that is worn internally by the lady-friend, while the other end stands ready to penetrate their excited pegging partner. Some also have vibrators in that can stimulate the wearer. A perfect ‘double ender’ for pegging newbies would be one with a large wearable bulb that can be inserted vaginally on one end, and a finger-sized dido at the other.

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Going for Gold - 5 Ways to Dirty Talk Your Lover to the Finish Line

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When we’re getting sexy, we’re all about taking the seduction and anticipation up a few notches, and talking dirty can be a route to whole new level of excitement.

Dirty talk can get both of you hotter than ever, but it can also lead to confusion, missed signals, and awkwardness— meaning we have to tread carefully. When it comes to talking dirty, you’re really addressing one thing: how much can you get away with?

Most people err on the side of caution, possibly leading to boring, platonic, sanitised conversations destined never to lead to an orgasm—or even an elevated heart rate. On the other hand, some people are so brazen, they turn off the majority of people they’re trying to turn on. The secret is to push the boundaries of what you can get away with without crossing them…well…by too much anyway, hehehe!

The foundation for good (and fun) dirty talk is the same as other components of a healthy sexual relationship—good communication with your partner and being up front about what you like.

Now go for Gold with these five tips.

1. Training

Talking about Dirty Sanchezing her bearded clam or using red flag words is a bit of a no-no. Word choice matters. Don’t be unnecessarily clinical or explicit; nothing is going to make a guy softer (or a girl drier) than talking about volumetric blood flow to the genital region. Do be descriptive. Details make stories come to life, and essentially, talking dirty is all about details.

2. On Your Marks

Learn some new dirty words —erotic fiction is a pretty good place to find new words to add to sexy times; porn videos tend to be a bit short on good or realistic dialogue.

3. Get Set

Like with anything, when and how you do it matters. Do be humorous, but strike a balance. If you’re too serious, it’s creepy. If you’re too funny, you’re a clown. Don’t incorporate dirty talk too early—such as to a total stranger or someone who hasn’t given you signs that he or she is open to it. Subtlety, word play and cleverness go a long way. But don’t force it. You should talk dirty because you’re in the mood and feeling it—not because someone told you to do it. It has to have some passion behind it. While you are at it, be aware of the other person’s response to your dirty talk. If the person you’re with gives you a red light, respect it.

4. Go, Go, Go

Talk about how he tastes, how she’s the perfect dirty girl—be specific. Don’t freak out if your partner tries dirty talk without the pre-conversation and you don’t like it—just talk about it, regroup and get it on.

5. Across the Finish Line

If you are in the heat of passion and land upon a phrase that turns them on, simply repeating it can give it a great sexual intensity. Even something as simple as “Don’t stop! Don’t stop! Don’t stop!” can make you sound crazy for them.

Now get those tongues wagging people!

Will These 4 Products REALLY Enhance My Sex Life and Yours?

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When researching articles and other content, my internet history is obviously a bit crazy. I keep giggling more and more at the advertising that gets thrown at me for specialist products promising to change my sex life for the better. These are the ones that made me laugh the most, complete with new and honest descriptions for them.

Vajazzle

Ever get depressed because your vulva resembles a human sex organ instead of a disco ball? So demoralising. But there's hope! Just reach for Vajazzle Body Crystals. Shave, glue, set it, and forget it! (Note: "Forget it" means "Forget it until a week later, when you'll find vagina-crystals in the kitchen sink, between your butt cheeks, and on your sofa.”)

Deep Throat Spray

Hate it when you've just eaten some garlic hummus, and desperately need a breath mint, but also need to deep throat a huge cock? Worry no more; Comfortably Numb Deep Throat Spray is here to solve both of those oddly specific problems, while simultaneously evoking the ethereal sounds of Pink Floyd. It's the minty fresh way to paralyse normal human reflexes! For those special evenings when you want to forget you're choking on ball sack.

Erectile Quality Monitor

Ladies, do you ever have mutually-satisfying sex, but then balk at telling your friends, "He was sooo hard!" because you don't have any real way to quantify penile hardness? Don't worry, the Fast Size Erectile Quality Monitor is here to help. Just push your guy's member against the super-scientific pressure sensor, wait for his dick to bend, and and check the results; an LED light indicator will tell you how he sizes up. For added fun, use with a colour-coded calendar so you can chart your lover's progress!

Internal Feminine Flavouring

For those special days when you don't want your genitals to taste like...erm...genitals! Whenever you're afraid of a little morning breath coming from downstairs, pop in the mintiest, freshest way to make sure he'll want to go down on you. It's like toothpaste for your labia! Essential for those moments when you don't have time for a shower but still want to be intimate with a man who despises the natural taste of your body.

Has anyone else come across any other crazy products promising you a better time in the bedroom? Did you buy them and did they work? Share with us in the comments.