The Doctor Will See You Now - Mesmerisingly Moreish Medical Play

Horny doctors and naughty nurses…white coats and latex gloves…shiny instruments and the sharp tang of alcohol…what a playground for the fetishist, BDSM practitioner or sexual adventurer!

In sexual roleplay a hospital or medical scene involves the sex partners assuming the roles of doctors nurses, surgeons and patients to act out specific or general medical fetishes. Medical fantasy is a genre in pornography, though the fantasy may not necessarily involve pornography or sexual activity.

Medical play often involves an intimate examination, wherein the dominant partner performs quasi-medical procedures on a, usually restrained, submissive patient.

The examination may involve handling of the genitals and breasts, or the insertion of objects into various orifices. The objects may be heated or frozen to reproduce the sensations experienced during a real medical exam. Strap-on play is a common part of this type of examination. Medical sex toys like Wartenberg wheels and speculum may enhance the examination. Temperature taking may also feature in the play with oral and rectal thermometers (make sure you don’t get these mixed up folks!).The examination may culminate with an enema or the masturbation of the submissive patient. In more extreme cases, medical play may involve the acting out of an anaesthesia fetish, piercing, skin stapling, or the insertion of urethral sounds.

Medical play may appeal to submissive partners, as it picks up on the vulnerability they feel when they're sick or hurt, bringing it into the bedroom. During medical play, submissive partners might also endure tests which may be painful or humiliating, while trusting that their doctor knows best. Dominant partners also enjoy medical play because it puts them in control of their patient's pleasure, and in some cases, their pain.

Fetishes come in all flavours. Always learn the ropes of safety before playing with medical -- or any -- devices.

If BDSM is your ‘drug’ of choice, then incorporating some deviant doctor action into your extracurricular activities promises to deliver the ultimate high!

4 Bondage Tips For Beginners So You Will Rarely Need a Safe Word

Bondage is not just for the BDSM lovers out there, it’s for anyone who wants to add a bit of spice to their sexy time. Bondage may be a factor of BDSM but the belief that it is only used during this kind of setting is a misconception, however it can be a gentle introduction into the BDSM lifestyle. Here’s our guide to safety when considering beginner’s bondage.

In Charge or Under Control?

You need to discuss what you want out of bondage with your partner. Is domination your kind of thing and they want to surrender to you? Or perhaps you both like the thought of being tied up and taken advantage of, in which case you need to take turns? Where will your kinky play take place? The bedroom? The kitchen? Your back garden? What will you use for creating the knots? You need to prepare for everything, not only to make sure you get the most out of your kinky time but also to keep yourselves safe.

Safe is the New Sexy

Be particularly careful on deciding on where to have your fun. Tying someone up in a steamy shower could be fantastically erotic but their hands are no longer free to catch and balance themselves. Your kitchen floor could be a majorly horny place to get down to it but there’s the obvious array of sharp, heavy utensils, moving drawers and countless other dangerous items in your kitchen — well not just your kitchen but every room. Survey your prospective play area and safe-proof everything before having your fu, as one of you will be at a disadvantage when tied up and unable to react quickly to any mishap.

Silk Appeal

The material you use is best kept as something soft, flexible and easily accessible for starting out. You might want to go full on and buy a bunch of rope to hogtie your partner with, but you need to transition into it before you get to that stage. Something you have at home like a tie or stockings are perfect for beginners’ bondage as they’re forgiving on the skin and you already have them, so if you’re not keen on tying one another up after trying it, you haven’t wasted any money. Then, once you are both comfortable, you can move on to other materials such as ropes. Keep in mind that there’s going to be some back and forth movement, and with a tougher material like rope on skin that isn’t used to such treatment there could be injuries if you do not do things right. Also try not to use anything of value to tie them up just in case of an emergency where you need to cut their ties in a hurry.

Always Have a Safe Word

Bondage can be a very part of role playing. Always make sure that you and your partner have agreed on a safe word before playing. This must be something unusual that would not normally be said. So whether it is ‘Mugglewump’, ‘Marmite’ or ’Margaret Thatcher’, make sure you have it sorted

Bondage can be great fun, it gives extra sensation to the person tied up as their body is producing extra adrenaline as a natural response to being restrained. Even though they’ve chosen this, it’s what humans have evolved to do when suddenly not in control of their own bodies. So more adrenaline, more blood rushing to the genitals and erogenous areas leading to fantastic sex and higher intensity orgasms. Now that we’ve given you the science and the theory, it’s time to take the practical.

Becoming a MILF Hunter

Are you on the prowl for an older, more experienced lady who knows what she wants and how to get it? In case you’re new to MILF hunting or simply need a refresher, here’s our guide to wooing your fiery cougar into bed!

Be Good To Her and She’ll Be Good to You

Remember that mature ladies are majestic with much respect for themselves, so treat them with that same level of appreciation and don’t forget for a second that she has those additional years of practice in pulling - she’s much better at it than you are. So if you act like anything less than a gentleman in the way you speak to and treat her, don’t be surprised when you’re kicked to the curb and she goes on to find someone who really does behave like they should toward her.

MILF Locations

Where to find a filthy MILF that will fulfil all your darkest pleasures? There are so many places, from the gym getting their beautiful figures in shape, the local park mingling with other MILFs, to the pub scouting out potential younger lays across the bar. Want to be one of those hot, less experienced men that they bed after eye-fucking across the room? We bet you do!

Please Her in more Ways than One

You’ve bagged your sexy older vixen and you’re in between the sheets, now you need to show your MILF what a raging testosterone-filled bull you are. Don’t hold back, your mature woman doesn’t want a young boy, she wants an enthused, alpha male who knows how to caress her oh so subtly yet bring her to the point of climatic, Earth-shaking pleasure whilst getting what he desires from her also. She wants this man to show her things she’s never seen and please her in ways she’d never imagined. So think outside the box when with your MILF, missionary all night most likely wont cut her mustard!

So remember to exude confidence, allure, respect and display a little awe that’s due for the wondrous females that are mature women. Your older woman will be intriguing not just in the bedroom but in general thanks to her extensive life experience, she will show you things you could only have ever dreamt up from the most sensual pornography and leave the most erotic memories etched in your mind for the rest of your life.

Sex in the Morning VS Sex at Night - When is the Best Time to Be Horny?

Blokes tend to wake up feeling amorous, while their partners get in the mood late in the evening - so why can't we synchronise our sex clocks?

So the saying goes, women are from Venus, men are from Mars, right? Well, it turns out that women and men are operating on completely different time zones as well.

According to a lot of research, it has been found that women are most interested in getting steamy between 11pm and 2am, while men are more frisky between 6am and 9am: the average time being 11:21pm for women, and 7:54am for men. Unfortunately, only a whopping 16% of men have been recorded to want sex before they sleep at night.

It doesn’t just come down to a simple: men have morning wood, and women want sex at night. Rather, there is some real science behind why women and men are on such opposite sex schedules, and why their appetites don’t always coincide with one another.

Women and men both produce testosterone, which is the heaviest influence for sex drive in our bodies:

A man produces the most testosterone before he even wakes up in the morning - anywhere between 25%-50% more than any other time throughout the day.

So, as the sun begins to rise, he’s already sending more juice to the engine for hen he opens his eyes.

Ladies, have you ever had mornings where your man’s boner just won’t leave you alone - yet all you can think about is sleep? This is totally normal.: women are at their lowest levels of testosterone in the morning. As the sun begins to go down, woman’s production increases - sadly just as men’s are decreasing. Curse you Mother Nature!!

A woman’s testosterone production also doesn’t fluctuate as severely throughout the day as a man’s does. men’s hormone levels increase and decrease immensely in a twenty four hour period, while women’s levels correlate more closely with their cycles.

Have you ladies noticed that you’re more horny about 2 weeks before your period is on it’s way? Well, here’s why: halfway through your cycle, you’re at your height of testosterone production: up to 30 times higher than at the start.

Another booster for testosterone - whether you are a man or a woman - is getting a sufficient amount of sleep. Sleep deprivation has been proven to significantly lower testosterone levels, simultaneously lowering sex drive.

So, guys, you wanna get some action in the AM? Make sure your lady is getting a good amount of shut-eye. Research shows that getting 5+ hours of sleep will raise a person’s sex drive by around 15%.

The old joke is that ‘Women need a reason to have sex and men just need a place.’ Funny enough, but not surprising by any means, research has concluded that even though men are more randy in the mornings, couples are most likely to have sex at night.

There are benefits to morning sex though, but that’s another article. ;-)

Sex From A Porn Star's Point Of View

Porn is everywhere, there’s no getting away from that and it will most likely always be around. A lot of people try to emulate their sex lives on what they’ve seen in these adult cinematic pieces but what they don’t see is the not-so-glamorous behind the scenes where the men need to top up on viagra to keep themselves going or where a star suffers from anal prolapse after too much anal (google image search it..don’t be eating anything whilst you do). Bottom line is what you see after the cuts and necessary edits have been made to the porn movies is not realistic. Porn stars are rather open about this and have given their two cents on sex based on their varied sexual experience.

More Than A Genital Connection

Adam Glasser a.k.a. Seymore Butts has divulged his opinion to the foundations of an enviably fantastic sex life as communicating what you want with your partner/s and listening to what they want also. Even sexy starlet Lisa-Ann says the best sex she ever had was with someone she connected with, this is all about communication and feeling comfortable with someone. Without that it’s merely physical but there’s the difference between mediocre and red-hot sex, the psychological aspect.

Porn Is Plastic Sex

James Deen opened up even further about the less than real world of porn with brutal honesty that the awkward positions, long-haul sex sessions and looking fantastic during sex. (If you look not a hair out of place during sex then you’re doing it wrong!) Extremely successful Jessica Drake has created her own DVD series educating every day people on fantastic sex. During the series she gives some brilliant and advice like switching between foreplay and intercourse along keeping your clothes on for sex.

Scrub Up

Tasha Reign has a real bug-bear, uncleanliness! According to her, you don’t need to be absolutely immaculate but unsightly body hair should be removed or trimmed, all areas of the body should be thoroughly washed and for her smell is extremely important so don’t wear anything overwhelming that’s gonna have them choking as they try to get close to you but something demure that gives off a more demure but sensuous scent.

So there you have it, this advice all sounds fairly standard because porn stars are also normal people and all say the same thing - porn is not an ideal view of sex, it’s just something to help fulfill an urge now and again but never base your sex life on it.