The Doctor Will See You Now - Mesmerisingly Moreish Medical Play

Horny doctors and naughty nurses…white coats and latex gloves…shiny instruments and the sharp tang of alcohol…what a playground for the fetishist, BDSM practitioner or sexual adventurer!

In sexual roleplay a hospital or medical scene involves the sex partners assuming the roles of doctors nurses, surgeons and patients to act out specific or general medical fetishes. Medical fantasy is a genre in pornography, though the fantasy may not necessarily involve pornography or sexual activity.

Medical play often involves an intimate examination, wherein the dominant partner performs quasi-medical procedures on a, usually restrained, submissive patient.

The examination may involve handling of the genitals and breasts, or the insertion of objects into various orifices. The objects may be heated or frozen to reproduce the sensations experienced during a real medical exam. Strap-on play is a common part of this type of examination. Medical sex toys like Wartenberg wheels and speculum may enhance the examination. Temperature taking may also feature in the play with oral and rectal thermometers (make sure you don’t get these mixed up folks!).The examination may culminate with an enema or the masturbation of the submissive patient. In more extreme cases, medical play may involve the acting out of an anaesthesia fetish, piercing, skin stapling, or the insertion of urethral sounds.

Medical play may appeal to submissive partners, as it picks up on the vulnerability they feel when they're sick or hurt, bringing it into the bedroom. During medical play, submissive partners might also endure tests which may be painful or humiliating, while trusting that their doctor knows best. Dominant partners also enjoy medical play because it puts them in control of their patient's pleasure, and in some cases, their pain.

Fetishes come in all flavours. Always learn the ropes of safety before playing with medical -- or any -- devices.

If BDSM is your ‘drug’ of choice, then incorporating some deviant doctor action into your extracurricular activities promises to deliver the ultimate high!

Ace on the Face But Don’t Get it in My Hair! - 4 Semen Secrets

Though sperm is mainly used for procreation, it can have other benefits to everyday life.

Because You’re Worth it!

In sperm, a crystalline polyamine compound called Spermine can be found. This particular compound is also known as an antioxidant. It is believed to diminish wrinkles, smooth skin and help with taming or preventing acne. A Norwegian company, has synthesised the compounds into a facial cream. According to research, the cream Spermine is 30 times more effective than vitamin E and can delay the ageing process by 20 percent. However, nature's most natural facial cream can cost you a whopping $250.

Give Yourself a Boost

Not only can sperm provide healthy skin, but also it can be used as an anti-depressant. In a recent study, researchers demonstrated that women who were directly exposed to semen were less likely to be depressed. The study stated mood-altering hormones that are present in semen can be absorbed through the vagina. Some of these mood-altering chemicals include, but are not limited to prolactin, a natural anti-depressant; oxytocin, which assist in enhancing one's mood and serotonin, a widely known antidepressant neurotransmitter.

Erm….Tasty!

When it comes to cooking, although semen may be the farthest thing from your mind, according to "Natural Harvest—A Collection of Semen-Based Recipes," semen is very nutritious. The cook book advertises semen as an "inexpensive" ingredient that can give any food an…erm…“interesting twist.”

Cloak and Dagger

Lastly, if by any chance you are in dire need of invisible ink, semen may suffice. During World War I, the British Intelligence Service discovered semen can act as invisible ink. Unlike other chemicals used, semen did not react to means of detection such as iodine vapour.

Unless you are a part of an intelligence group of some kind, invisible ink may not be essential, however if you ever need a facial, Spermine may be a great option. If you don’t want to shell out the dough, perhaps just make it a part of your bedroom routine — after all, waste not, want not!

4 Cam Sex Secrets So You Can Go the Distance!

Met someone awesome on the site? Want to get closer but distance is a problem? Lucky for you technology has your back and can bridge the gap between you and your online hotty.

While getting wet and wild over the web can feel a little weird at first, it can be really really hot. So with the above in mind, here a some cam sex secrets to making your experience the best it can be.

Be Bold!

The biggest mistake people make while having cam sex is blowing the mood by showing their insecurities or inexperience and saying things like, “I don’t know what to do”, or “I’m feeling shy”. There’s nothing quite as unsexy as a lack of confidence. If you’re feeling bashful or can’t think of anything sexy to say, here’s a hint: say nothing at all, and let your body do the talking.

Build Momentum

Cam sex is just that—sex. This means that an arousing build up of foreplay is just as important as it is during physical intercourse. Of course you need to adjust your turn on techniques accordingly (more on that later), but don’t make the experience seem unnatural or chore-like by saying things like “should we start now?” Enjoy a glass of wine together, have some banter, and fan the flames of desire with simple physical compliments and flirting.

Get Creative

While no substitute for the real thing, you might surprise yourself with how intense a session of cam sex could be with a little creativity. Introduce a vibrator or other toys to your cyber sessions and supply each other with arousing visuals while you experience some more-than-arousing sensations. Be sure to also use your toys to experiment with point-of-view positions and angles and communicate with one another to establish a mutual rhythm and pace.

Fantastic Fantasies

Since cybersex stimulates your imagination, why not take advantage of the opportunity to further explore some role-playing fantasies and fetishes? Before initiating a cam session that you intend to turn frisky, slip on a sexy role play outfit under your clothes. When the timing’s right, slowly reveal your outfit and apologise you can’t be there to pick their jaw up off the floor.

While you may be unable to make a direct physical connection, the psychological preview that you share via cam sex can be out of this world. Technology has shown us that an internet connection provides a far kinkier-than-expected alternative to sex when distance is an obstacle.

To Swing or Not to Swing - Overcoming the Green-Eyed Monster

Jealousy is an obvious issue that you and your partner need to address before you even begin swinging. Not dealing with this potential problem beforehand will certainly come back to bite you in the rear - and not in a fun way! If you are the incredibly jealous sort (particularly about sexual infidelity), swinging might not be your bag and you should not feel ashamed or upset that you become jealous about the emotional and sexual ties to your spouse or committed partner.

Almost everyone feels jealousy on some level, and those who are prone to jealousy need to stick to a monogamous relationship. In fact, monogamy (as long as affairs are excluded) is made to reduce or even get rid of jealousy since you will have complete and total access to the sexual and emotional aspects of your partner. On the other hand, if you have such a deep trust with your partner that you are above jealousy and desire to enhance your sexual experiences with each other by including additional partners, you might want to look into swinging.

While many people are turned on by the thought of imagining their partner having sex with someone else, the actual act of seeing it happen can turn people off. Even for those who have decided to take up swinging, the first time you see your partner with another it can be a little jarring despite the fact that you might not be “jealous” in your own terms. The best way to adjust to these early stages of swinging is to take things slowly.

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Lay down ground rules with your partner that you both can agree on and stick to them. It is very common for couples to begin with “soft swinging” (where the actual intercourse is kept strictly with your partner while other actions happen with others) and then possibly work up to fully open swinging. Still, many couples find that soft swinging works best for them and choose not to upgrade. Do not be afraid to back things down if you start to feel uncomfortable or extremely jealous.

Another key element of swinging is to talk about your jealousy if you have it. Grinning and bearing it is NOT a good way to handle things. Stuffing it down is yet another bad idea. Successful swinging is built on the concepts of trust and confidence in your committed relationship. This isn’t to say that you do not have trust or confidence if you feel jealous about your partner being with someone else. It just means that if you feel that you and your partner could benefit from the experience of swinging you need to make sure the trust and confidence is already there. If you think that swinging isn’t your scene, just enjoy the trust and confidence you have and be happy in knowing not all relationships are like yours.

It does help to still set up boundaries no matter what level of swinging you happen to be at. Being intimate with your committed partner is still a special experience and is one to be savoured. Having boundaries with those you choose to swing with will help keep things intimate with you and your partner so that the natural jealousy you feel will be sated with the knowledge that you still have special access to your partner.

Happy swinging :-)

5 CBT Methods that Will Have You Hanging on to Your Love Spuds

So, you've decided to grow a pair and give CBT a go? Well, now you have your mind set upon grabbing your genital tormenting aspirations by the balls, you are unlikely to be disappointed. A little flick can cause a LOT of pain, however there are many ways in which you can wreak havoc on your partner’s stick and giggleberries. Just take a look at a few of them below.

Sensation / Temperature Play

This is what begins to separate the men from the boys. Why not introduce some of this play to your titillating torment? You may wish to combine this with genital bondage or testicle cuffs so that your victim’s bits and pieces are super sensitive to every sadistic stroke. Try dripping some specialist wax onto those sensitive spots, running a Wartenberg wheel over some areas, or even try some tickle torture. Alternatively give your sub some cool sensations with ice, and cold metal objects placed on his manhood.

Genital Bondage

With some delicate weaves and knots, there is no reason CBT can’t be pretty! Not only does binding the balls heighten sensitivity, it also hinders orgasm, making it the perfect practice for the ultimate tease and denial. Once the twins are bound, the exposed areas will be tight and extremely sensitive. Mummification of the penis is a popular choice for making an erection an uncomfortable prospect. Be careful not to bind too tightly, you don’t want to damage that precious package permanently.

Ball Crushing

If this is your only ‘vice’ it’s certainly an enjoyable one to have! A ball crusher is a device designed to gradually squeeze the testicles with the turn of a screw or nut. It’s up to the dominant to decide how much pressure a sub is to endure. You can also use your foot to obtain a similar effect, whether bare, wearing army boots, (ooh er!) or even whilst wearing spiked stiletto heels (covers groin) if you’d rather not play with toys.

Ball Stretching

It’s no stretch of the imagination to say that this is the perfect punishment when it comes to a bit of ‘genitorment’. A ball stretcher gradually applies pressure to the scrotum pulling it downwards and away from the body. In addition, when attached it will stop those naughty, hairy space hoppers from doing a disappearing act until you’re done. Feeling extra mean, oh dominant one? Try tugging gently on the weights! Mwahahahahahaha!

Ball Busting

Ever heard the saying: ‘Dude, she’s a real ball buster!” Well, this gives an all new, literal meaning to the phrase! Ball busting, or ‘bb’ for short, refers to the act of kicking, kneeing or punching a man in the testicles. Unfortunately (well, fortunately, I guess), in this sort of activity the balls are not made of steel, so it can hurt kind of a lot. This particular form of CBT originates in Japan, where it is referred to as Tamakeri.

Although testicles are actually more resilient than you think, and you know what they say - “no pain, no gain”, just make sure you always follow safety. Be careful with those family jewels, they can’t be replaced!

8 Reasons to Flip Over and Indulge in Some Doggy Style Bliss

We all have our favourite positions, and the ones on top (har har!) may differ when surveying the sexes. Doggy style may not be the first position we try with a new partner — or even a not-new partner — but there's a lot to love about it. Generally, it's a position that guys are considered to be way more into than females, but it doesn't have to be that way. So how do you make doggy style better?

Whether you are turned on by being a bit dominated, letting yourself surrender, or just knowing that with doggy, your partner can hit all the right spots — and deeply too — it's absolutely worth giving this position a try.

For doggy, the angle of his thrusting is going to often dictate how good this feels for you, so give your partner a lot of encouragement along the way and let him know what feels right and what can be adjusted. And make sure to bring some cushioning, being on all fours can feel awkward after a while.

Want to kick it up another notch? Bring a vibrator in for some additional fun and slip it down there — it'll stimulate both of you while you're going at it.

Go Deeper

If the person being penetrated has a vagina, this angle can actually move how the cervix sits in relation to the vagina, allowing the penetrator to go underneath it for a deeper penetration than in most other positions. If the receiver is getting it anally, it can straighten out the anal canal for a similarly deeper penetration.

Cushion Up

Doggy style can be a bit tough on your joints. Consider putting pillows under either partner's knees, or even under the receiver's hips, so that they can still relax and enjoy the angle while getting it on.

You Aren't At Any Greater Risk From UTIs

Some believe you're more likely to contract a urinary tract infection if you do it doggy. That's simply not true. Sex in general exposes a female-bodied person with a higher likelihood of UTI. UTIs occur when bacteria is exposed to the urethra. Women have much shorter urethras than men, making infections easier to contract. UTIs can be very painful and require being treated by antibiotics. Regardless of any positions practiced, pee afterwards to wash away any potential bacterial exposure.”

It's Not Submissive

Fact of the matter is that this position feels great for a lot of people because, physiologically, it can hit a lot of the right spots. You don't have to give up any control to enjoy doggy style from the bottom.

Spanking Anyone…?

Smacking dat ass is not mandatory! Ask before you spank. If the question is answered with a responding and enthusiastic 'Yes,' then spank away!

Switch Things Up

So often, doggy style is portrayed as the someone pounding away at their partner from behind, but it doesn’t have to be that way! Back that ass up! Bounce, pop, swing, and roll your hips. Your partner will love it. Plus, all that movement churns your pelvic floor muscles, giving you added stimulation. Or lower your body so that you’re laying on your stomach for a slow grind instead of a deep thrust.

It Can Be Cosy

Doggy Style can be intimate. It’s a vulnerable position, and can imply a certain amount of surrender and trust. Your partner can kiss your back, neck, and shoulders, and whisper lovely things in your ear.

Just Like Yoga

There’s a reason we do the Cat/Cow positions in yoga (and why someone always giggles through them). Being on your hands and knees allows your hips to open, and can release lower back tension. Add sexual pleasure to that … win-win!

And if all of the above doesn’t make you wanna do it like they do on the Discovery Channel, there is the bonus of multi-tasking. Banging and boxset binging - the ultimate Netflix and chill!

3 Steps to Make Your Threesome Dreams a Reality

In the pantheon of sexual fantasies blissful to imagine but volatile to undertake, threesomes are near the top of the list. It might seem like a ménage à trois should be an easy sell: more hands! More mouths! More genitals! More fun!

Threesomes might be a great way to spice up a monogamous relationship that has lost its heat. Introducing another person into your bedroom can be thrilling, but only if the couple carefully plans out their experience with a potential third person. The most famous threesome fantasy typically calls for two women and a man (FFM), but two men and a woman (MMF), three men (MMM) or three women (FFF) can boink each other just as happily.

Introducing the Idea to a Partner

For people who value monogamy as an important aspect of a relationship, threesomes can sound intimidating. Like all sexual fantasies, the desire for a ménage à trois should be introduced as an exciting new adventure to try together. It should also be discussed when the relationship feels rock-solid. Unsurprisingly, many people may worry that a partner’s request for a threesome indicates dissatisfaction or a wish to break up. If this is the reason you are asking for a threesome, you may need to reconsider the relationship. Trust is the most important ingredient in a threesome, and it is necessary for everyone to enjoy themselves.

If your partner seems reluctant, ask what worries them and attempt to soothe their fears. Offer to let them choose the third and set limits on what they can or cannot do. Try exploring threesome fantasies when you are alone together by turning your partner on and then talking about three-way action, developing a positive association between threesomes and orgasms.

And if your partner says no? No means no. Threesomes are not worth losing a relationship over. And if a three-way is that important for your sexual satisfaction, perhaps it is time to break up and search for a partner who is also into threesomes!

Rules

Make sure to set rules and limitations before you even begin trying to find a third person. Discuss what can and cannot be done as specifically as possible. Is penetration allowed? What about kissing? Can one of you sit back and watch for a while? If someone leaves the room should everything stop? Will the third person sleep over? What will happen the next morning? Is this a one-time-only event or not? It might be a good idea to write the rules down so that they can be referred to later. Communicate openly and honestly about potential jealousy to avoid problems. Condoms should be switched for every penetration and sex dams are a good idea, too.

You should obtain permission from your primary partner for everything from licking nipples to buttholes. But the third person should feel safe and satisfied, too, so once you have established rules with your primary partner, welcome them into a discussion as well. Everyone should feel comfortable, stopping the threesome in its tracks if anyone feels uncomfortable or insecure. And do not break the rules in the heat of the moment for any reason.

Finding a Third

There are two types of thirds: one you know and one you don’t. While it may feel like a good idea to invite a close friend into your bedroom, consider carefully the possibility that things may get awkward afterward. The ideal third is someone you trust but will not have to see regularly. Do not pick someone you harbour romantic feelings for, as this could make your partner feel (understandably) insecure.

When it’s finally time to do the deed, don’t jump into bed together right away. Relax together and ramp up to it by playing sexy truth-or-dare or rolling naughty dice with sexy deeds on them. Building this intimacy can help the three-way feel more comfortable and safe for everyone. Try not to leave anyone out and be as generous as possible with your tongue, hands and toys to make sure that everyone is satisfied. If your primary partner worries about being ignored, make sure not to give too much attention to the third party.

Afterwards, discuss your experience. Find out how your partner felt during the threesome and how they now feel afterwards. Change the rules if necessary. With some fine tuning, and Ii you’re sensitive and responsible, you can have many wild nights that bring you both even closer together, as well as begets some amazing orgasms.