How cool would it be if you could somehow get girls chasing YOU instead of the other way around? I think most guys would agree that it would be a lot more convenient if girls did most of the work. Luckily, this is a lot easier than you might think. Once you know what flips the female switch, building the type of attraction that gets women chasing you is a no brainer but first you need to know how to make a girl want you and the science behind it.
#1. Make the First Move
When it comes to the dating game, men should always make the first move. Although some girls might approach a guy if they like him, most ladies expect a guy to approach them. The least she can do is to encourage you to approach her using actions such as smiling at you a couple of times, making eye contact among others. If she gives you these signals, it’s your turn to man up and approach her. If you like her, you do not have to wait for her to encourage you, just do it because she might be busy with things around her, making it difficult for her to notice anything around. The first impression you give her really matters, therefore approach her the right way.
#2. Screen Her by Asking Questions
After you gather the courage to approach her, don’t sell yourself too quickly. After all, you may think she’s cute, but you don’t know for sure if she’s your type. That’s why it’s important to screen her. Don’t just assume she’s worth your time.
At first, ask her how her day’s going, and as the conversation progresses, weave in little questions here and there to get a feeling for her personality, outlook, etc…
Do you like party girls? Guide the conversation in a direction where you could easily ask her what bars, clubs etc. she enjoys on the weekends.
#3 Lighten Up -Don’t Be So Serious
Being playful is also among the 6 secrets to make a girl like you. Ladies find a serious guy not fun to hang around. If she does not enjoy being around you, then you can be sure that you will not get her to fall for you. Laugh, smile and crack jokes. Do not take things very seriously. Touch her hands, shoulders etc. appropriately as you talk. This will help to make her feel comfortable around you.
It does not hurt to occasionally tell him how handsome he is possibly not you accept it in a good way at first because society says men should not receive this kind of feedback, but do not forget to tell him sometimes , will be with the red face of what it will feel flushed by that phrase.
#2 The woman turned to see you
We know that you wear like crazy another girl look to your kid, you could try to change a bit your attitude towards this situation, you can give notice that the girl was watching him, he will feel much more confident to you, you may notice that not bother you . You might even start to make jokes.
# 3 Can you help?
Ok, I know you're a strong woman and you can do it all yourself, even to load a jug and carry it up the stairs, but it is worth that you ask for help for anything, he will feel useful and very well because You know that you are helping and you're doing well.
# 4 You're right
You are very competitive and always want to be right about everything, but not always, accepts that wrong too, can he tell the very direct things, knowing that they are the truth, you can take this time to accept that you were wrong. He will trust you a lot.
# 5 A quickie?
This sexy hand grasps much, do not be afraid to ask your boyfriend that this will make the mood of the two changes during the day in a beneficial way.
Recently, a group of people were asked the following question:"What fact did you learn at an embarrassingly late age?"
The responses, compiled from this askreddit thread, are absolutely hilarious. I can't believe some of these.
1. I’m 28 years old. I only just realized that the little piggy who went to market wasn't going shopping for groceries...
2. The lyrics to The Beatle’s song Twist and Shout are: “Shake it up baby now (Shake it up baby)” But I always thought the lyrics went: “We're shakin' a baby now (Shakin' a baby)”. People were horrified when I started singing it this way.
3. It's called "metal" music because it's harder than rock.
4. It's "For all intents and purposes," Not "For all intensive purposes." Learned at age 30.
5. I was 23 on a trip with my girlfriend in San Francisco. We were both getting ready for the day in the bathroom and I needed my hair gel, so I asked if she could hand me my toilet treat bag. She seemed confused, I again asked, "Can you please hand me my bag of toilet treats!?" She ran out of the bathroom laughing.
6. I re-named a goldfish "rainbow" when I was 7 because it kept changing color every few months. I told friends about this fish for years like it was some mystical kaleidoscope fish. It hit me in the face a couple months ago that the fish wasn't changing color...my parents were just replacing it when it died without telling me.
7. I didn't realize that Mike Myers plays both Austin Powers and Dr Evil till the third Austin Powers movie came out. And Fat Bastard. And Goldmember.
8. Until I was 17 I thought the term "getting knocked up" just meant having sex. As a guy, this was an awkward thing to constantly wish upon myself.. ("man, I wish Sarah would knock me up... like really good.")
9. I thought if you just blew into a balloon it would rise. I didn't realize it was the helium that caused the balloon to float until I was 18 and receptioning at a salon and had an extremely embarrassing moment of blowing up the balloons, tying the strings to them, and asking a co-worker why they were just laying on the ground. She almost died laughing.
10. Just talked to a coworker the other day who didn't know his name was Jason until 3rd grade. His initials were JT and his family called him by that and so he thought that was his name. During roll call in class the teacher was asking for a "Jason" and he just sat there thinking "some sucker is late for class". Then the name JT was never called and confusion ensued.
11. I didn't know that sex required motion until I was 18. I thought you just stuck it in and went to sleep, and that was sex.
12. Somehow the conversation of superhero names came up with my girlfriend (29) the other day, and she mentioned Wolverine being named after wolves. I kinda looked at her and said "Wolverine was named after wolverines." She stared back blankly. One google images search later and I had taught a biology major about a new animal.
13. I thought the term "prima donna" was "pre-Madonna." I always wondered what happened before her that would demand a new term.
14. I have some friends in their 30s who think behaving means being haved. (That's haved pronounced like shaved). They will ask their own kids "are you being have?" Like 'have' means good.
15. I thought "I feel like a dog in heat" meant that you felt uncomfortably warm, like a dog in hot weather would feel. I was in the back of my friend's suburban on a road trip through Southern California when her parents asked if we wanted them to turn on the air conditioning. Yes, please. I feel like a dog in heat! That was a pretty awkward ride.
